A Simple Tip to Earn Your Woman’s Love
As a woman I’m sure I speak for the rest of my species when I say, if only we understood each other a little bit better, women would nag less, complain less, argue less and appreciate you more. Men, if you want your woman to love and respect you in the way you deserve, to appreciate you, if you want her to praise your masculinity and abilities, if you want her to stand behind you 100% of the way no matter what obstacle you encounter, if you want her to stay committed to you and only you, and most of all, if you consider your woman to be the princess that she is… then tell her “I love you” multiple times throughout the day… everyday. Let her know you’re thinking about her, constantly. Listen to her needs. Let her know when you’ve arrived to your destination and let her know when you’re coming home, just to ease her innocent heart. “I’m too busy” is never an excuse. Don’t allow your ego to get in the way of loving. For a woman’s ego will never say, I’m sick of his love. If you can’t call her to say “I’m coming home” don’t expect to come home to the red carpet that she would’ve rolled out just for you. A king is not a king without his queen. Behind a woman’s every need is a little girl asking you to love her. When a woman gets angry and shouts or complains, understand, all she is begging for is your love. That’s it.
A Deeper Look Into Male & Female Biology
One of the greatest things I learnt when studying Kabbalah in Israel was about the deep mystical truths regarding male and female spiritual biology.
Women, by nature, have more extreme and more frequent emotional fluctuations than men. In Kabbalah they say that the sun is masculine and the moon is feminine and that the waxing and waning (fluctuations) of the moon correspond to the woman’s menstrual cycle. Hence, women follow the cycle of the moon every month, a cycle which fluctuates, like the woman’s emotions. A woman’s nature is to go in circles, she is a circle, while a man remains a single point. This is why when a woman gets angry she will repeat herself over and over again, while a man will say what’s on his mind just once, if at all.
The reason a woman will generally take things more seriously in her relationship is because the relationship just so happens to be more on her mind than on his. The woman, who represents a circle, a hole, is inherently lacking without a male counterpart to complete her. To create peace in any relationship requires many pieces of a whole working together to create a symphony. Every relationship requires the differences between male and female, these different elements work together to become more than the sum of their parts.
Masculine energy (man) is perceived as pure potential that offers his potential to the woman, while feminine energy (woman) is the actualizer of his potential. This is portrayed everywhere in nature. Rain is masculine and transmits life source to Mother Nature, allowing her to grow plants and vegetables to sustain life on earth. Sun is masculine and moon is feminine; sun gives light to the moon by enveloping its masculine energy around the moon. Caterpillar is masculine, it engulfs the feminine in its protective embrace, then sets free the feminine butterfly. The man is the seed, or the sperm, who offers this microscopic dot of pure potential over to the woman. The woman, in return takes this potential, the man’s seed, and actualizes his potential by turning it into a living breathing being. The feminine brings heaven down to earth by allowing something that existed beyond space and time (masculine), and brings it down into the physical world. She takes the information, the DNA, the ideas of the man, and she provides the right nutrients, energy, nurture and time to turn it into something real.
Men are inherently simple creatures. Women are more complex, therefore they assume men are the same way. Because men are more simple and ‘to the point’, when they are confronted with complexity of the physical world (i.e.- a woman’s frustration), they run away and hide in their cave. He is not held back by the physical mundane details of the world, but rather he comes into reality through the abstract. A woman should never deny a man of his innate character traits because she traps her man when she does this. But it is also crucial that the man know how to nurture and give back to the woman. When a woman is shown love and respect, and is reminded of this constantly, the man increases her confidence levels and lowers the chance of confusion and arguments on her end. When a man can learn to express his ideas to his woman openly and honestly, the women will automatically respond in a more loving and appreciative tone. The key is learning how to communicate this correctly. With the right ingredients and a more aware understanding, man and woman can live side-by-side in complete harmony and bliss.